You don’t learn how to be fascinating.
You unlearn boring.
Do you remember yourself as a kid? Before you learned how to be boring?
My daughter Azalea is eleven years old, and she expresses herself with the fearlessness of a young girl who has not yet acquired the self-doubt of public failure. She hasn’t learned boring, yet. I know she’ll probably learn soon. Or more accurately, the world will teach her.
One day she will forget the steps, or miss the ball, or flunk the test. Someone will tell her she’s not good enough or smart enough or cool enough, too this or not enough that. And no matter how untrue it is, no matter how much evidence there is to the contrary, she’ll take a little piece of her personality and hide it away in a box.
Here’s what I want to tell my daughter, and yours, and you:
You don’t need to find the light. You are the light.
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Over the past decade, I’ve seen how crucial it is to know and understand the most fascinating parts of yourself. To see the best of how the world sees you. Once you know why people hire you and promote you and champion for you and fall in love with you, it becomes easy to be yourself.
You don’t need to “fix” anything about yourself.
You don’t need to change.
Just do more of what you’re already doing right.
Start to notice the ways in which you shut yourself down (maybe without even realizing it). Start to see how insecurities get in the way of making a difference in the world.
Unlearn boring, and instead, learn to see the best of how the world sees you.
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You don’t learn how to be fascinating. You unlearn boring. (Tweet this)
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